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Three Highly Effective Stress Busters

March 14, 2012 by Steve Laswell

“There is more to life than simply increasing its speed.” ― Mahatma Gandhi

Bob* answered his phone, but was not available to the caller. Distracted would be an understatement; perhaps you can identify.

After the call ended, Bob picked up a few things and left his office. Driving to his next appointment it happened: with a little space, he became aware of what just happened.  Reality check: he didn’t remember who called, why he called or what was said.

Photo by JunCTionS flickr

Yes, there is more to life than simply increasing its speed.

Learning to create space is vital to your ability to bring harmony to the frantic life, presence to the moment, and listening to the story. To create space we must learn to take control of the pace.

How to create space in a hurry

Here are three simple things you can do; your pick:

  1. Breathe – don’t take a breath; instead slow down, let it be a deep, cleansing breath.  Go ahead, enjoy this life-giving oxygen; do you feel the space it creates?
  2. Appreciate – think of a person you are thankful for … consider how they are touching your life. What if you send a text message or if you have time, call them; let them know you appreciate them.
  3. Celebrate – who or what can you celebrate? It does not have to be a party; who could you go give a “high five” to? Who could you send a quick email of praise to?

As Bob related his story with me, I was proud. With just a little space while driving, he reflected on the phone call. He checked his phone’s caller ID, called the number, and apologized for his lack of attentiveness.

Guess what, the caller was checking with Bob to see if he was still interested in doing some work with their organization. The line through his name was erased, because he made the call.

To create space we must take some control over the pace.

Are you there?

Did you have time to do one of the three simple steps?

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*Not his real name

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Comments

  1. Melissa Bogle says

    March 15, 2012 at 4:18 pm

    I would love to share on linked In. How do I do this? I didn’t see a share button or am I overlooking it?

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    • Steve Laswell says

      March 15, 2012 at 5:29 pm

      The post is on my LinkedIN profile, scroll all the way to the bottom. The LinkedIn button on the post seems to only let you view it via LinkedIn. Thanks for pointing that out, I’ll ask my web developer about a different button for sharing. Thanks for dropping by! Steve

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Tags: Appreciation, Listening, Stress in the work placeThis entry was posted on March 14, 2012 at 11:45 pm and is filed under: Communication, Work-Life Balance

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